You can say the right words, but if your body language is saying the opposite, it will be extremely difficult for someone to love you.
Listenable
Listening is a way of interacting that brings you and others closer together. Rather than just hearing, active listening means you are fully focused on what is being said, withholding judgment and advice.
There are many ways to practice active listening, and the basics are to maintain eye contact and not interrupt the other person.
Active listening not only makes you a more likeable person, it also helps you improve your relationships.
Pay attention to your nonverbal communication
You can say the right words, but if your body language is saying the opposite, it will be extremely difficult for someone to love you.
During the conversation, remember to maintain communication by being comfortable with the other person. (illustrative photo)
During the conversation, remember to maintain communication by being comfortable with others. Looking absentmindedly into the distance shows that you are bored. So be open to the conversation, try not to cross your arms in front of your chest because it will make it difficult for the other person to start a conversation.
Don’t fill the silence
We all feel awkward and uncomfortable when silence comes. It makes us feel like we need to fill that void, but when we try to fill the silence, we can end up talking too much and affecting others.
Not only should you listen to others, but you should also not judge them. (illustrative photo)
In conversation, find relaxation in silence, stay calm, and try to only start speaking when you feel the words are right and necessary.
Do not mock or judge others
Not only should you listen to others, but you should also not judge them. No one in this world is perfect, we all have our own weaknesses and mistakes, and none of us want to be exposed by others. As a person, you should respect others, only then will they respect you.