People reaching middle age should not blindly admire the happiness of others. Because that happiness is not necessarily suitable for us.
Compare
In this life, my brother, there are other higher mountains. We can never compare everything. Don’t be jealous of what others have, and don’t be too demanding. Let’s reduce comparisons, try harder to make our lives better and better.
There’s no need to compare too much in this life, and there’s no need to follow other people, otherwise you’ll miss out on what you have. There’s no need to compare too much, and there’s no need to always follow others, otherwise you’ll miss out on what you have. Everyone has their own way of life and values, and should not be compared with others.
Everyone has their own way of life and values, and should not be compared with others. (illustration)
Comparing people with others only makes people angrier. The feeling of being compared makes me even more uncomfortable.
People reaching middle age should not blindly admire the happiness of others. Because that happiness is not necessarily suitable for us.
adultery
There are many people who, after getting married, go out to look for joy and new stimulation because their daily life is too peaceful. They feel that this makes them relive their youth.
But what is the final outcome of being stuck in a love that doesn’t belong to you?
I can only leave my wife and children out of extreme suffering.
Remember that sneaking behind other people’s backs will bring insecurity. Whether you are a man or a woman, just having an affair will definitely make you feel guilty.
Adultery may be romantic, but it will not bring any good results. So when you’re middle-aged, don’t think about having an affair because that’s not true love.
Fame and profit
Fame and fortune are what many people still pursue, but if it belongs to us, no one can take it away.
So if there is nothing worth fighting for, let’s not fight at all. If you keep pursuing fame and fortune, you will forget the happiness you have.