I explained very clearly that I knew nothing about what my husband had done, but no one believed me.
My husband always dreams of getting rich quickly. I advise you to do business honestly, don’t have unrealistic dreams, no one will get rich quickly if they earn money through sweat and tears. But my husband criticized me for having a limited vision and that, as a woman, I was not as calculating as a man… Instead of working for a stable company, he quit his job, saying he would switch to real estate sales and land investing. and gold can never be poor. I couldn’t stop him, thanks to both families and friends, no one could change his decision.
After quitting his job, my husband stayed at home and learned how to play the stock market and “deal” with real estate. Every day he carries a briefcase and wears nice clothes to work, but for several months he has not been able to give his wife a penny to support their children. Every morning he asked me for tens of thousands or 100 thousand for coffee and gasoline. While working to make money and taking care of my children, I was always angry and irritable, and our relationship became even colder. At the beginning of this year, we officially “slept in separate rooms” because I was so bored with my husband. I also wanted a divorce, but I was afraid that my child would lack his father’s affection, so I had to endure it.
My husband and I don’t exchange or talk much anymore. If there is any, it’s just a few sentences related to the child. In April, not knowing where the money came from, my husband gave me 50 million and told me to deposit it in the bank as savings for my children. I asked where he got this money and his husband said it was because he was doing business. From April to August, every month my husband gave me 50-70 million, his pocket was also full of money. I asked suspiciously but my husband still did not tell me where the money was, he just told me to rest assured and put it away.
Last week, my husband ran away from home, leaving only a message apologizing and asking me to file for divorce. I can’t call, I can’t text. My husband’s parents were also worried but no one could contact him. The other day, early in the morning, there was a commotion in front of my house, with several people cursing and calling out my husband’s name to scold him. I opened the gate and asked them what they were looking for him for. They said my husband borrowed money to invest in his business, and now that he had lost money, he ran away and refused to pay them. Some people even brought an incense bowl and a picture of my husband to curse them to vent their anger.
I explained that I didn’t know any of this but they didn’t believe me. They cursed at me saying it would be nice to use my husband’s money, but why don’t I dare bear the debt for my husband? All very difficult words to hear. I had to write a debt repayment note for each person before they would go home. Calculating the total amount of money my husband owes, both principal and interest, is more than 2 billion VND, an amount too large for my ability. Both parents knew about it and encouraged and helped me pay off the debt, but it was still not enough. I’m still short 1 billion 700 million VND. Should I sell my house now to pay off my debt? And how can I get my husband to come back and solve your problem?