The complex and overlapping relationships in Tu Lo Kho’s family are surprising.
In the Vietnamese LGBT community, Tu Lo Kho (nickname: Adonis, real name: Nguyen Ngoc Dung, born 1991) is a famous figure. Because before he transitioned, he was a beautiful girl and the “phone wallpaper” of many young people of the 9X generation.
After transitioning, he was dubbed the “transgender male god” and had a happy marriage with his 21-year-old wife – Hoang Hai Yen (nickname: Irene, born 1970). The two went to Las Vegas (USA) to register their marriage and had twin children through IVF, Money and Ruby.
Tu Lo Kho’s couple has a 21 year age difference.
Ms. Yen has been married and has three children. Even her eldest child (nickname: Kien Toc Xu) is only 3 years younger than Tu Lo Kho. Because the distance is not much different, the two still address each other as stepbrother – stepbrother, not “stepfather”.
Because of this special relationship, Tu Lo Kho’s family went through many “complicated things”. Recently, he told the story “father-in-law is 34 years old – daughter-in-law is 31 years old”.
Accordingly, Kien Toc Xu officially got married at the end of September. And Kien Toc Xu’s wife is also the same age, 31 years old. So, in his family, the father-in-law is 34 years old, but the daughter-in-law is 31 years old.
He himself called it “a complicated family relationship”. The funny thing also lies in the fact that this daughter-in-law is actually an acquaintance of Tu Lo Kho. It is known that Kien and his wife first met at Tu Lo Kho’s wedding. The two then met each other and loved each other for 3 years before getting married.
Kien Toc Xu’s wedding was held on the beach.
At the age of 34, Tu Lo Kho became “father-in-law” and “paternal stepfather”, making him overwhelmed by these great titles.
Tu Lo Kho said an interesting moment for the family was the first time he represented the family to discuss the wedding with Kien’s wife’s family. Because of his status, he sat at the same table as Kien’s wife’s parents. But occasionally, he will also go down to Kien’s wife’s tray to chat with the couple.
Tu Lo Kho recounted: “The first time I went to Kien’s wife’s house a few months ago, I was extremely confused, guys. I was overwhelmed and didn’t know what to say. Because I was 34 years old, my first time working as a stepbrother, or in other words, a father. Of course, my uncle-in-law was surprised.
Then Kien’s children will call me uncle. I’m very overwhelmed with this huge title at the age of 34. This afternoon I went to Kien’s wife’s house, according to position, she is my daughter-in-law. Because we’ve known each other for so long, we still call ourselves brother and sister because in reality, Kien’s wife and I are only 3 years apart. “.
Tu Lo Kho and his wife are not afraid to publicize their emotional moments.
Tu Lo Kho also thanked Kien very much for keeping his promise to his “stepbrother”. Because the distance is not much different, in the past, Tu told his “stepbrother” not to get married and have children before him. After that, Kien also kept his promise by waiting for Hai Yen to give birth to Tu’s child first before he could get married and have a child.
“Now, Kien can get married and have children comfortably. I’m also ready to be a stepfather, guys.” Tu Lo Kho humorously said.
Tu Lo Kho and his wife have twin babies through in vitro fertilization.
It is known that Tu Lo Kho’s family is a business owner, so the lives of both of them and their children are very comfortable. After the couple held their wedding, because of their relationship and age difference, they both received many mixed opinions.
However, the couple is still very comfortable publicizing each other’s images, not afraid to mention opinions such as the wife being older than the husband, the age gap… The two have 5 children, including 3 of Hai’s own children. Yen and her two children live with Tu Lo Kho.
The businesswoman once shared about the age difference with her husband: “When I first fell in love, I felt like I was old, so I told the photographer in America how to make me look a little younger. However, the crew told me that if I want to take pictures, I have to be realistic. When he chose When we went to take wedding photos together, he didn’t look at the old or the young. But as a woman, I’m always conscious of how to make my husband love me and be proud of me.”
Tu Lo Kho’s happy family.
The complicated and overlapping relationships in Tu Lo Kho’s family received more than 4.2 million views in a short time. Most people think that family members must be very open-minded and happy to easily sympathize with these interesting relationships.
Some comments below Tu Lo Kho’s shared videos:
– “Family relationships are so interesting. It’s true that anything can happen in the world.”
– “The relationships of family members are very overlapping, but everyone respects and lives comfortably with each other. It’s really strange.”
– “Age and title are not important, the important thing is that everyone lives comfortably together.”