According to the experience passed down from our ancestors, there are 3 types of problems that cannot be helped, 3 types of rice that cannot be eaten, and 3 types of money that cannot be spent. Have you made any mistakes?
According to the experience passed down by our ancestors, there are 3 types of problems that cannot be helped, 3 types of rice that cannot be eaten, and 3 types of money that cannot be spent. Have you made any mistakes?
3 types of problems that cannot be helped
+ Helping others makes you too busy
Helping others is a good human virtue, but only within one’s own capacity. Try to help others but don’t increase your own burden.
If you help others and make a mess of things, they will resent you. If you can’t help, you need to refuse and not belittle yourself.
3 types of problems that cannot be helped
+ Emotional problems
It’s best not to help with things related to human emotions. Don’t give advice to others because good or bad things can easily be resented by others.
+ Can’t help when it’s related to money
Emergency aid is entirely possible, but it absolutely cannot save the poor. Regular help will not be able to achieve the goal of helping them but will also make them feel dependent.
3 types of rice cannot be eaten
+ No free meals
There is certainly no free meal in this world. For those who are greedy for small things, they may lose big things. Eating and drinking without actively paying for it may temporarily give you comfort, but in the long run, what you lose is friendship.
+ Do not eat soft rice
Not eating soft rice “soft rice” here means relying too much on others. Try to support yourself with your own abilities. Parents will also leave one day, lovers will definitely be absent at times, relying on anyone is not as good as relying on yourself for peace of mind.
+ Don’t eat leftovers
Don’t eat leftovers here in the sense of not imitating other people’s lifestyles, and not eating other people’s “leftovers”. Someone else’s bowl may have a variety of flavors, which looks very delicious, but your “stomach” may only be suitable for porridge and other frugal dishes.
3 types of money that cannot be spent
+ Illegal money
Spending money also requires principles. Illegal money absolutely cannot be taken or spent. Illegal profits cannot be realized or spent. Surely, what you lose will be more than the amount of effort you spent to gain.
+ Don’t spend money that isn’t yours
Although this is not illegal wealth, but taking care of money on behalf of others is not allowed in this case. Whether it’s your parents’ money, your siblings’ or your friends’ money. Because if someone else lets you keep the money, it means they have a lot of trust in you and you need to be worthy of this trust from your friends and family.
+ Future money cannot be spent
The moon has clouds and sunshine, people also have good luck in the morning and afternoon. No one can guarantee that tomorrow will still be smooth sailing. Tomorrow’s money will be useful tomorrow, so we also need to consider the future when spending money. Absolutely don’t just want to have fun temporarily.